Fitness doesn’t come in a pill

I saw an article the other day about a “fitness pill” being developed.

First reported in the online journal Cell, scientists are moving closer to developing a pill that could deliver some of the benefits of exercise -- even for those who don’t exercise. Researchers now have two possible pills that appear able to build muscle, increase stamina and even burn fat.

The very idea of this bothers me, and it should bother anyone who works for their body and their health.

The drug is controversial because of the possibility athletes could misuse it to enhance sports performance.

Yes, that’s bad enough, but that’s not what bothers me about it. I am bothered by what the lead researcher said in a BBC story about the drug.

“If you like exercise, you like the idea of getting 'more bang for your buck,’" Professor Ronald Evans said. "If you don't like exercise, you love the idea of getting the benefits from a pill.”

Getting the benefits from a pill. This is what worries me. I am afraid this will give the already lazy, obese couch potato license to say, “Well, I don’t have to exercise. I’ll just take a pill.” Such a thing would not urge them to make the healthy changes they need to make. They would rely on a pill instead.

If the work can be transferred to humans, Evans said it may have potential for treating people with certain muscle diseases, as well as helping hospital patients, veterans and people with obesity maintain a minimum fitness level.

“In our society there is an ever decreasing amount of time for either healthy food or exercise,” Evans said.

So his answer is to encourage obese people to continue to make their health and fitness a low priority by giving them a pill.

We all have the same 24 hours. It’s a matter of priority. If your health and fitness are important enough to you, you’ll find the time for it.

As of now, the drug has not been approved for use in humans, and it may never be. I hope it isn’t. Such an idea cheapens the hard work that I do, and other people who exercise do, to make our bodies stronger and healthier.

A pill will not give you the pride of achieving a new exercise goal. It can’t replace the ability to do push-ups, or put one more plate on the exercise machine, or pick up the next heaviest dumbbell.

What do you think of the ‘fitness pill’? Will such a thing be abused?

Working the chest: Pec Deck Flies vs. Dumbbell Flies

I hear debates in the fitness world about the pros and cons of free weights and selectorizers. Which is better?

I was doing some dumbbell butterflies at the gym the other day, and I thought it would be fun to look at dumbbell flies versus butterfly machines.

First, a description of the butterfly machine, also called the pec deck butterfly. This Web site describes it this way:

"Using a Pec Deck machine, seat yourself in it accordingly. Perform the exercise by squeezing your forearms and elbows in together so that you virtually touch them together at the peak of the movement. Be sure to really squeeze your pecs at the peak of this movement for a one-count. Return to the start position and repeat."

When I do dumbbell butterflies, I usually lay on a flat bench. You can also do them on an incline bench. Here is a description of flat bench dumbbell flies.

"Position yourself on a free-standing flat bench, flat on your back. Have your spotter hand you each dumbbell. When you begin this movement, you want your arms to be stretched out wide to your sides with your elbows slightly bent and your palms facing inward, toward one another. When you lift the dumbbells up together, visualize hugging a giant tree trunk. At the peak of the movement, really squeeze your pecs together for a one-count. When returning to the start position, be sure to lower the dumbbells in a slow and controlled fashion."

On this Web site are cute animated diagrams and descriptions of the butterfly machine and the dumbbell flies.

This article on about.com gives a good discussion of free weights vs. machines. Some of the pros of weight machines are: they're supportive, they're easy to use, they save time and they're less intimidating. However, they can be too supportive and limit the ways you can work your body.

The pros of free weights include versatility, functionality and building whole body strength. However, they can be hard to learn, there is more risk of injury, and they can be confusing.

Personally, I think there are benefits to both types of exercise, depending on what your purpose is. The dumbbell flies are more difficult -- as are most free weight exercises -- and they make me more sore. I try to do them most often.

But some days, I just don't feel like lifting the free weights, or the free weight area is too crowded, or I'm in a hurry, so the butterfly machine does just fine. The butterfly machine is also a great finishing exercise. If I have done several free-weight chest exercises and need one more to finish up, the butterfly machine is a great one to jump on.

Which do you prefer, free-weight butterflies or butterfly machines?

How hobbies keep you healthy

What do you do in your spare time? Do you sit around and watch TV or stare into space? Or do you do something that keeps your mind or body active in some way?

In other words, do you have a hobby?

I hope so, because hobbies are good for. They engage you in different ways that your typical work or other obligations. A hobby often teaches you something new. Hobbies can also relieve stress and help you cope with other less-than-satisfactory areas of your life.

What is a hobby, exactly?

According to Wikipedia, a hobby is a spare-time recreational pursuit. Hobbies are practiced for interest and enjoyment, rather than financial reward.

How does a hobby help your health?

I found a Web site that addresses this very question. According to the article, hobbies can engage you physically and mentally, and people who have a hobby are generally healthier. Hobbies that require expertise are more satisfying because developing an expertise in something requires commitment, and commitment results in a higher level of engagement.

The ideal hobby engages us on three levels: first as a diversion that helps pass the time, second as a passion where we become truly engaged in doing something we love, and third as something that creates a sense of purpose.

Who doesn’t need that?

You may be wondering if I have a hobby. Yes, I do. I have several.

I love to read. Every night before I go to bed, I wind down with a good book. I do some gardening. I have a project underway in my backyard, for which I have drawn up a diagram and made specific plans. As I’ve mentioned before, I like to exercise. I go to the gym twice a week and take a yoga class once a week. I also enjoy writing and blogging, hence the reason I started Healthy Life. I also enjoy roleplaying. I have a couple of imaginary characters that I play in fantasy settings.

My husband also likes to read, and he goes to the gym with me. He runs the roleplaying game in which I play. In addition, he is learning Latin.

What does all this mean? We are keeping ourselves active and engaged. Reading and roleplaying keep our minds active and spark our imaginations. Exercise keeps our bodies strong and in shape. Gardening makes me feel good to cultivate something living outside of myself. There’s something about digging around in the dirt, connecting with the earth and making something beautiful out of my backyard space.

When I’ve had a bad day at work, or when I just need something to do, these hobbies fill in the gap. You might or might not enjoy your career, but it takes more than that to have a healthy, fulfilling life. Hobbies give me that, and they can give you that, too.

So, what are your hobbies? I’d like to know!

Make your whole household healthy

Committing to a healthy lifestyle isn't easy. Sometimes, it's downright difficult.

But if you don't have a supportive partner or family, it's almost impossible. One person can't do it alone when everyone else in the house is eating junk food.

I know from experience. When one partner’s favorite dinner is Hamburger Helper, and they are eating potato chips and M&M’s all the time, it’s hard for you to focus on eating vegetables, fruits and lean meats.

Healthy eating also requires expanding your palate to include new recipes, flavored in different ways with spices and oils instead of creamy sauces, and cooked in healthier ways, such as sauteeing, broiling or baking. It’s hard to do these things when your partner wants everything deep-fried and won't try healthier ways of flavoring foods.

Luckily, I have a supportive partner now, one who is just as committed to healthy living as I am.

As I’ve written before on this blog, my parents modeled healthy eating habits to us kids. Our daily snacks mainly consisted of fruits, and dinners included meat, potatoes or rice and vegetables. We drank milk on a regular basis. Potato chips, desserts and soft drinks were kept to a minimum.

The key was that the whole family supported healthy eating habits.

Exercise is also an important component of a healthy life. And it's much easier to keep exercising if your partner or the whole family is involved.

Your exercise partner can be your spouse or significant other, or it can be a good friend or family member. My stepfather and stepbrother used to go to the gym together. My husband and I go to the gym together now.

A partner can keep you motivated, urge you to exercise when you just don’t feel like it, spot you during weightlifting and encourage you to do new exercises.

An article I found here says one of the single best things you can do to help ensure your health and fitness success and give your efforts a much-needed jumpstart is to embrace your family and draw them into living healthier with you. It offers tips for getting the family started on a healthy lifestyle together.

So grab your partner and your kids, fix a healthy dinner together and then go take a walk afterward!

Are you trying to be healthier? Is your family healthy? What obstacles stand in your way?

‘One of the boys’? I don’t think so!

In response to my series of posts last week about why women should do pushups, I received the following comment from a reader:

“Being like one of the boys is alright if you are one of the boys. However, I have noticed that when women work out on heavy exercises (the type that men normally do), their body starts to change and take on the muscle size and look of men! If a woman wants to compete with the men at all cost, I guess the heavy exercise is the thing for those
women to do. However, running or similar exercises can be done where women are healthy, but still look like a woman!”

And so, as a woman does strength training and advocates for other women to do so, I just couldn’t let this one pass without addressing it. I have to do my part to correct the misconception that women can’t or shouldn’t lift weights.

First, let’s look at some evidence from Women Fitness, a Web site run by a group of experts, all of which have impressive credentials and backgrounds.

They give a list of top 10 misconceptions on bodybuilding, which I encourage you to check out. They’re all good arguments, but number seven on their list is pertinent to my post here:

Female bodybuilders are trying to turn themselves into men
“This couldn’t be further from the truth. If anything, women that transform their physiques are attempting to become better women, not men. I attribute this thinking to a society that continues to be disturbed by their level of physical development due to commonly held misconceptions of gender and being unable (or unwilling) to separate an athletic pursuit from a woman’s sexuality. Some will always see female athletes in sexual terms and use them explain what they don’t understand. If a woman with muscle is more of a man, is a man without muscle more of a woman?”

Sounds logical to me. And expert enough for me to accept. I especially like the final question. It drives the point home.

Kathleen Ekdahl, a certified fitness instructor and personal trainer with more than 12 years experience in fitness and a background in clinical research and cardiovascular medicine, offers this on The New England Wellness Web:

"Women, in particular, see tremendous benefits from strength training. Traditionally, women relied on cardiovascular activity and a low calorie diet to change their physical appearance. Unfortunately, low calorie diets merely punish the soul and plummet the metabolism, and, without including consistent strength training in our program, effecting change can be an impossible goal. Also, aerobically overtraining can lead to injury. We now know that strength training is absolutely essential if we wish to create visual changes in our bodies, and we've discovered that the benefits of strength training extend far beyond the visual."

This effectively rebuts my anonymous reader’s opinion that women should do running exercises, but not “heavy exercises.”

My next piece of evidence also rebuts this opinion. It’s from Health World, Strength Training for Women, by Wayne L. Westcott, Ph.D. He says:

"There is essentially no difference between men and women with respect to exercise technique, training procedures or strength development. ...
You may have heard that women should not do strength exercise for one of the following reasons.

1. Strength training makes women too muscular and bulky.


2. Strength training is a waste of time for women because they are not capable of developing strong muscles.


3. Strength training is dangerous for women because their bodies are not designed to exercise with resistance.

Of course, none of these reasons is valid and such misinformation is incorrect. Actually, very few women have the genetic potential or enough natural testosterone to develop large muscles. Firm, fit, functional muscles, yes -- large muscles, no.

Women who do not strength train lose about five pounds of muscle every decade of adult life. That leads to a lower metabolism and a gradual increase in fat weight (about 15 pounds per decade), as well as a less fit, firm and attractive appearance.”

I don’t want to lost muscle, nor gain fat weight as I age if I can help it, so I intend to keep lifting those weights.

I have been going to a gym now for several years, and I haven’t turned into a man yet. All of my woman parts and female functions are still quite intact.

That’s me in the photo. Proof that I am not a man, even though I lift weights.

If my anonymous reader simply doesn’t like the toned look of women who lift weights, that’s okay. We all have our opinions and preferences. If it’s an issue of attractiveness, I’m not worried about that, either. I am happily married, and my husband has no complaints whatsoever about my fit body.

However, if people with opinions like my anonymous reader spread them around and use them to discourage women from being as strong and healthy as they can be, then that’s what hurts us.

Ladies, we can’t let them hold us back.

Have you ever been discouraged, or heard of a woman being discouraged from strength training? What was the person’s argument? How did you handle it? I’m curious. Let me know.

Real women do pushups part 3: The benefits

This week I've advocated for women to do pushups, and I've given some reviews of videos on YouTube to watch for instruction on how to do pushups.

But I haven't yet discussed why pushups are good for women.

The reason is simple: They offer several benefits that give you more strength to do the activities you do every day.

Pushups are efficient, and they are cheap because you can do them almost anywhere.

However, they are not easy! It does take time and dedication to train yourself to be able to do them -- and do them properly -- but the benefits are worth it.

What are the benefits for women to do pushups?

According to Megafitnesscenter.com, pushups offer the advantages of stretching, weightlifting and cardiovascular all in one exercise. "Apart from increasing upper body strength, a pushup workout program, when pursued properly, also develops abdominal and hip stability. This leads to a more balanced upper and lower body as well as good shoulder, trunk and hip movements," the site says.

Lifestyle Lounge offers these points:

• Pushups proffer the benefits of stretching, weightlifting and cardiovascular exercise as well.


• It also helps to get more toned shoulders, trunk, butt, upper and lower body.


• Pushup exercise, if pursued rightly, increases upper body strength and brings about more abdominal and hip stability.


• A workout program of pushups works on large number of muscle groups and helps to retain whole body fitness.


• It actively works the chest, triceps and deltoids together with stretching of back and the biceps.


• Undoubtedly, pushup is the best exercise for the chest, but it is a great exercise for the abdominal and lower back muscles. Besides all of the above, it works for the quadriceps too.

How do all of these benefits translate to everyday life?

Here are some ways doing pushups and other upper-body exercises have helped me.

I do the grocery shopping, and I have three cats. Thus, it falls to me to buy cat litter and cat food. I am strong enough to lift a 20-pound bag of cat litter and a 25-pound bag of cat food from a low grocery shelf and into my bascart without strain.

Are you a cat or dog owner? Can you lift big bags of food or litter? Wouldn't it be great if you could?

I am doing a gardening project in my backyard. This has involved transplanting several boxwood bushes. I have no trouble wielding the shovel to dig a hole, then dig the tree up and carry it across the yard to where I want it. Those bushes aren't the lightest things in the world, either!

Neither is a bag of soil. Have you ever tried to carry one across the yard? It’s much easier to lift or drag it where you need it with some strength in your arms, shoulders and core.

Gardening is a popular hobby, and I'll bet many of you do it in some form. Gardening requires a good amount of lifting, bending and stretching. How well are you able to perform your gardening tasks?

My husband and I have moved more times than I care to count, and since I have worked out at the gym and started doing pushups, I have been able to lift or help lift heavy boxes and furniture. It feels great to be able to pick up and move a 20- or 30-pound box and carry it myself without strain. As you might expect, I was sore the day after the move, but not injured. I knew my muscles would heal, and they did.

For those of you who have kids, upper body strength can help you lift them. Many times, if I see small children beg their mothers to lift them and carry them, one of two things will happen. The mom will tell the child, "I'm sorry, honey, I can't lift you. You're too heavy." Or the mom will lift the child using her back, not her core, legs and arms. (Perhaps proper lifting technique should be the subject of a future post!)

I've only seen one example of a mother who squatted down and lifted her child using her legs and arms. She had well-toned arms and shoulders. I'll bet she does a few pushups or other upper body exercises!

If you're a mother, wouldn't you like to be able to lift your child without fear of injuring yourself? Yes, they will eventually be too big for you to lift, but wouldn't it be great to lift and cuddle them close to you just a little longer?

Do pushups, and you can!

Real women do pushups, part 2: Video reviews

After my previous post urging women to do pushups, I started looking around YouTube to see if I could find some good videos that showed fit females demonstrating full pushups -- that is, on the hands and toes.

It's harder than I thought, but not impossible.

The first ones I stumbled on were several videos of buff bodybuilder women with huge muscles showing one-armed pushups, pushups with men on their backs and other feats of strength.

No, no, that's not what I'm going for. Too intimidating for us average women who just want to strengthen our upper bodies.

Then I found a couple that encouraged women to stay on their knees while doing pushups.

No, no, that's not right, either. We can do better than that!

I also had to wade through the videos of women taping themselves and posting them to show off how many pushups they can do. These are great morale builders, but not so good for learning proper technique. You have to look at some of these videos with a skeptical eye because the person in the video may not be doing it right.

Overall, the videos I trust the most come from personal trainers. They know what they are talking about, and they know how to break down the movement so you can learn how to do it right.

So, without further ado, here are some of the videos I found and my critique of them. I'll start with the ones featuring females, then I'll highlight a couple of good ones with male instructors.


Push Ups - Correct Technique Discussed



This is a wonderful step-by-step instruction of proper pushup technique. It shows a still photograph of a female in the frame, with fitness trainer Liz Harper and her husband doing a voice-over. Liz uses a little yellow circle to point to each body part, and she analyzes how each part should be positioned and how it is affected.

This video is really easy to follow. The still photographs allow you a really good look at what a female body should look like when doing a pushup.


CrossFit Push-up Standards



I like this one because it shows a fit female named Annie doing proper pushup technique. The video shows two views, which helps you watch her form from two different perspectives. It also shows some examples of improper technique so you know what not to do. Pleasant music plays in the background.


Weekly Challenge - Pushups



This video is a nice example of a fit -- but not bodybuilder -- woman who can do pushups. This is a nice one to watch if you just want to see a woman who can do it. She varies her hand positions several times.

However, I don't recommend this video for technique. It advocates doing as many pushups as possible as fast as possible. This goes against other videos I have watched, and other things I have learned about fitness. Exercise is not about doing reps fast; it's about doing them right.


Women Only Boot Camp "Push up / Mtn Climber workout"



This is a good video of a female instructor doing full pushups in combination with mountain climbers, a difficult-looking leg exercise that I might just have to try.

This is what I would call an intermediate video. She starts off showing a couple of three-quarter (on the knees) pushups, then goes right into full pushups, and says, "You know the rules for pushups." So you should watch one of the beginner videos and learn the rules for pushups before you try hers.

I checked out several videos on her You Tube channel, and she has a lot of good exercises for women, but I did not see one explaining how to do full pushups at the beginner level. So I had to look elsewhere for that.


Push up, push-ups for Women and Men: BodySpex Fitness



This is a great video for complete beginners. This is a male instructor, but he does specifically address women. He also breaks down all of the components of a proper pushup.

I especially like the way he starts out instructing you to be on your toes, and he recommends getting strong enough to do full pushups as quickly as possible. He also shows you how to do them on your knees, and how to build the strength to transition from the knees to the toes.


Chest Workout: Pushups for the Complete Beginner



In this video, the instructor, Scooby, does a great job of breaking down pushups for the complete beginner. He doesn't specify whether he is talking to men or women, which is great. Ladies can get a lot out of the information in this video without being intimidated -- and so can men. Scooby gives both the three-quarter and the full variations, along with good tips on form and technique.

What do you think of these videos? Have you found any others on the Web? If so, send me the link!

Real women do pushups

I remember way back in freshman P.E. class when our teacher made us do pushups. The boys had to do full pushups – in the full plank position, on their hands and toes.

We girls were told to do pushups with our knees on the floor because it was easier.

At the time, I didn’t question it. I simply assumed girls were unable to perform full pushups like boys. At the time, I certainly couldn’t, and no one encouraged me to build my upper body strength any further.

That changed a couple years ago. By then, I had been going to the gym for a few years, and I had developed enough upper body strength through other exercises that I decided to try some full pushups. Luckily, I have a supportive husband who encouraged me to give them a try.

So I dropped to the floor, and lo and behold, I ripped through a couple sets. I was so proud of myself! Since then, I have made sure to do three sets of ten pushups on a regular basis.

You see, I have to keep up my bragging rights.

I proved to myself that women can do full pushups if they commit themselves to developing enough upper body strength to do so – and they can achieve this in adulthood, even if they weren't athletic in high school.

Since I have achieved this ability, I have noticed that I am one of the few females at my gym who does full pushups. Why is this? Why don’t more women do full pushups?

Kelly Mills lends some insight in a guest article to the San Francisco Chronicle that women don't do push ups because they think of them as a man exercise. “We leave the push-ups and the dumbbells and the bench presses to the dudes, as though we couldn't possibly do such macho exercises,” she says.

Kelly calls on every woman to do pushups. I echo her call.

Ladies, drop and give me twenty!

It may take time and practice, but if you want to achieve it, you can do full pushups on your toes eventually. “If doing them from your feet isn't possible yet, start on your knees and do as many as you can, keeping your core nice and tight and bringing your chest as close to the floor as possible,” Kelly says. That’s good advice.

As for how to transition to doing full pushups, Joni Hyde, a Certified Personal Trainer and owner of WorkoutsForWomen.com, says on a post on BlueSuitMom.com to do one straight-legged pushup, then two bent-knee pushups alternating back and forth for a total of 15 to 18 total pushups. Then next time, go for two straight-legged to every one bent-knee. Eventually, you will be able to do all straight-legged pushups.

I would like to add something to Kelly’s call for women do to pushups. Let’s quit calling them “girls” pushups and “guys” pushups. I prefer the terms “three-quarter” pushups if your knees are on the floor and “full” pushups if you are up on your toes.

That takes the sexism out of it. Maybe using non-sexist terminology will encourage more women to give full pushups a try. And, maybe it will make guys who can’t do full pushups (and there are probably quite a few of you out there) not feel like they are wimpy or inadequate. Everybody has to start somewhere.

Where do you stand on the pushup issue? Can you do them? Would you like to try? I’m asking both men and women. Leave me a comment!

An open letter to the rude gym rat

Dear rude gym rat,

You know who you are. You’re the guy at the gym who leaves his towel on the seat of the bicep machine I want while you are four machines away doing three other sets. Yeah, rude gym rat, I’m talking to you.

Let me tell you, dude. You don’t own the place. So stop being rude to your fellow gym-goers.

I’ve been going to the gym now for about five years, and I’ve seen many examples of bad gym etiquette. You’re not the first, and unfortunately for me, you certainly won’t be the last. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll see this post and realize that your behavior affects others, like me. And maybe you’ll learn some gym etiquette and straighten up.

A gym is a community of sorts, and everyone there is paying good money for the right to use the machines. And they’re paying that money because they want to get fit.

So, rude gym rat, please keep some rules of etiquette in mind to make the gym a more pleasant experience for everyone.

You done? Clear out!

When I walk up to a bench lugging a pair of weights to do my bicep curls, I don’t want to see your towel or water bottle still sitting there while you’re nowhere in sight. Are you still using that bench or not? If you are still using it, please be there so it’s obvious to me. I’ll be happy to find another space. And if you’re done, take your towel, your weights and your water bottle with you so I’m not left wondering if I’m taking your turf.

Put your dumbbells back!

Put your weights back on the rack. Don’t leave them next to the bench. If you’re strong enough to lift those 70-pound weights for bicep curls, you’re strong enough to walk them back over to the rack. I certainly am not strong enough to lift them, and I don’t want to scoot your heavy weights out of the way so I can do my curls with my little ol’ 17-pound weights.

And when you re-rack the weights, put them back in order. The weight rack starts with the small five-pounders at one end and goes gradually up to the 95-pounders at the other end. If you got the 25-pounders out to do your set, they go after the 20-pounders and before the 30-pounders. Pairs also go together. Nothing annoys me more than to be looking for two 15-pound weights, only to find one where it is supposed to be and the other stuck next to the 50-pound weights because you were too lazy to walk it down to where it’s supposed to go.

Don’t be a machine hog

Don’t take up the whole gym. Like I said at the beginning, you don’t own the place. Use one machine at a time, do your sets efficiently, then move on to your next machine. I don’t mind waiting for you to finish if I see that you are moving quickly through your sets. What I don’t want to see is you doing your first set, then leaving your towel there while you wander around the gym. You don’t need to rest for five minutes. I could have done two or three of my own sets during your rest break. And you certainly don’t need to walk halfway across the gym to talk to your friend. If you want to have a social hour, give the machine up so that those of us who are there to workout can do so.

You also annoy me when you stand next to the machine, leaning against it while you talk to your friend. I want that machine. Are you going to use it to exercise, or are you going to use it as a prop to hold you up while you talk? If you’re not going to use it, take your conversation elsewhere so I can have it.

And if you want to superset between two machines, that’s OK with me. I do that, too. Just pick adjacent machines so you don’t go back and forth between two machines that are halfway across the gym from each other. If you like to superset, don’t do it when the gym is crowded and or when someone wants one of the machines. You might just have to finish with one machine, then grab the other one.

I don’t care how hot you think you are

This one is for you female gym rats. You know who you are. You’re the young one -- early to mid-20s -- wearing the skimpy little sports bra and short shorts, doing some flashy exercise in the middle of several guys while stealing little glances at them to make sure they are looking at you.

But it gets really bad when you look at me to make sure I’m looking at you.

I’m a 30-something woman. I am trying to concentrate on my exercises, and I am trying not to look at you. I won’t be hitting on you, and your flashy exercises are not going to make me jealous of you. Your flashiness just distracts me from what I’m trying to do and makes me wonder why you have to have so much attention. So please, stop it.

So, rude gym rat, the next time you are at the gym, please keep in mind that I might be at the machine next to you, and I and your other fellow gym-goers are just looking for a pleasant workout experience. The behaviors above are just a few that bother me. There are many other ways you can breach gym etiquette.

Luckily, you can follow these links here and here to see some other rules of etiquette to follow. Please take a look at them, and next time you’re at the gym, follow them so you can be better than the guy who inspired this letter.

Sincerely,
Jennifer

What rude gym behaviors bother you? Leave a comment and let me know!

How to keep your vacation (sort of) healthy

I have just returned from my vacation to Washington, D.C. At the same time, I am also getting this healthy lifestyle blog started. Thus, I came home with a few ideas for future posts.

But first, I thought I would give a few short snippets of things I did during my trip to stay a little on the healthy side.

Airplane abdominals

During takeoff on the flight from Detroit to Baltimore, I noticed my husband leaning forward, bracing himself against the upward tilt of the airplane. He said, “Hey, this is great for the abs!” So, of course, I joined him. I leaned forward and tightened my abs to resist the angle of the plane, and a few seconds later I felt a burn in my abs and thighs.

So, if you want to do a bit of isometrics on an airplane, just lean forward during takeoff. You have to do it as soon as the plane lifts off the ground, though. Once the plane levels out to cruising altitude, you lose the resistance.

I’m resting my feet

I am a yoga practitioner, and I am sensitive to the tension in my body caused by daily living. The routine tension of sitting at my desk all day, staring at a computer, carrying groceries and the like can usually be relieved by a series of yoga poses.

On vacation, my body suffers different tension because I put it through different stresses than at home. Walking a lot, sitting on an airplane and carrying a bag on my shoulder all take their toll. Therefore, I often find opportunities to stretch and twist to relieve the tension.

One pose that I like to do after walking a lot always gets a laugh from my husband, but it feels darn good. It’s called Legs Up the Wall, and it’s a great little inversion. He’ll look over and ask what in the world I’m doing, to which I answer, “I’m resting my feet!”

Basically, you lay with your back on the floor near a wall and rest your legs vertically up the wall. This causes the blood to flow away from your feet, which makes your feet happy after you’ve stressed them all day by walking on them. After a few seconds, you’ll feel a pleasant tingling sensation. You can point and flex your feet, and if you’re flexible enough, bring your leg back toward your face and stretch your hamstrings a bit. This pose also releases the lower back and shoulders, and you can lay in it for as long as you need to.

Restrained indulgence

On a vacation, our eating routine is always different than at home. This is partially because of circumstances – the usual salads, fruits and yogurt I would eat for lunch at home just aren’t readily available in a hotel room. You can’t carry any of these things with you, and you can’t always get to a grocery store near your hotel, and if you could, you don’t always have a refrigerator in your room to keep anything cold.

So you’re stuck with eating out for just about every meal. Don’t get me wrong – I enjoy going out to eat and experiencing different foods. That’s part of why I go on vacation – to eat things I can’t get or don’t normally eat at home.

But on this vacation, I found myself really paying attention to my food choices. For one meal, I wanted nothing more than a salad. Nothing but crisp green lettuce, a few toppings and dressing would do. I just didn’t want anything greasy or full of carbs. So we stopped at a McDonald’s, and my husband got burgers and fries while I got a salad. And it was delicious.

At other meals, I chose turkey sandwiches or grilled salmon and substituted sides of French fries for steamed vegetables.

However, since it was vacation, I didn’t entirely hold back. We went to this delicious steak house called Bugaboo Creek. I ordered sirloin tips with mashed potatoes. And boy, was it good! That was the same day I had the salad for lunch, so I figured I could justify the red meat and carbs.

When you’re on vacation, you should definitely have a meal or two where you can get something not-so-healthy and not feel too guilty about it. If you watch your choices at other meals, you can minimize the overall damage to your diet.

Although I have no doubt I gained a pound or two during my vacation, I feel like I did my best in striking a balance between indulgence and restraint. At no time did I feel like I was depriving myself or not enjoying my vacation to its fullest extent.

Now that vacation is over, though, it’s time to get back to the gym and the salads, fruit and yogurt!